Today I had a conversation with a dear friend of mine. We were talking about how sometimes difficult circumstances can reveal what is the truth of what is already there. Sometimes difficult things reveal the real character of who we are and who those around us are. My friend had gotten this piece of wisdom from her brother in law and it is a view I had never considered before. I admit that it took me a little while to process what the statement meant, but I have to say I agree.
When my mother was ill with cancer she was gentle, encouraging, and full of faith, even up to her passing. As she faced this huge battle for her life instead of growing bitter she pressed into the Lord.When my sister was struck ill with cancer her response was similar. In fact, she even had small children and continued to nurture and care for them amidst seemingly devastating circumstances. In both situations I witnessed mountain sized faith that not only strengthened the woman who were facing this disease but also those around them. In both situations I witnessed immeasurable acts of support and kindness. Also, in both cases I witnessed those who fell by the wayside and seemed unable to handle the circumstances. Peoples weaknesses were exposed, sometimes in ways that caused much pain. However, I also witnessed the beauty of a strength that can only come from a mighty God.
After spending some time reflecting on this conversation I had with my friend, I am left with the question of what would be reveled about me in the midst of difficult circumstances? In fact what has already been revealed? Have I been found a woman of faith walking in the gentle strength of a woman who puts her trust solely in the Lord? What would be and has been revealed of my capacity to love unselfishly and be a true sister to those in need? Have I faced hardship, disease, and even death to be shown as a true daughter of Christ walking in His love?
I’ve certainly faced some things in my life and I know that some things I have handled with grace and some I have handled well, with anything but….Regardless, I accept the challenge presented me recently. I accept the challenge to grow in my faith, my character, and my trust in Christ. Hopefully then, what is revealed about me be it by circumstances good or bad, I may be found an encourager, a strength giver, a joy sharer, and most of all pleasing to the Lord.
